Today , I want to talk about The Connection Between Answers & Excuse .... To understand both , we must first understand the opposite of these...and Answer & Excuse are directly the opposite of each other .
First , I would talk about The Excuse which I would like to call the "The Mischievous Little Devil " . For me , excuse is a reason that you made for yourself to run away from reality . Most excuses are coming from negative thoughts and beliefs . There's a thought from me : "Those who tell themselves that they have no time , too old , and pressurized are just finding an excuse to run away from reality ." (Trying to make their own beliefs to reality , trying to make people think that this is impossible ) .
Here's an example , when a person slacks before exams ... and when he got his results (and fail) , he would say I just don't have enough time , it's too hard etc . What kind of reason is this ? Why everyone have enough time when he don't . But please remember GOD treats each of us fair ... Why does he said that ? Because he wants his pride and don't want to admit his mistakes . Excuses are lies , they will make you lie to yourself over and over again .
For my personal advice , please don't make any lies to yourself , just admit the truth and try to mend it ....Better late than never ... Excuses may stop us from doing the right thing , but please remember we still have answers .
Next , the answers will not be the "Holy Angel " , But it will be "The Brave Warrior ". Answers are different from excuses , answer are reasons that is the truth , the reality . But , people who give out answers besides excuses are better . Because they have the courage to face the reality , their problems and most importantly they will be responsible for their actions and bare the consequences that they have done .
We use the example above , if he slacked before exams and got his results ...Rather than saying I don't have time ; He would say I didn't prepare well or I'm lazy (negative thinking/beliefs maybe finding a way to make his beliefs true) and he will treat that as a learning experience .
So , in the future you want to be a "Little Devil " or a "Brave warrior " , its your choice ; Which would you choose to be ?
