The Connection Between Answers & Excuse

Today , I want to talk about The Connection Between Answers & Excuse .... To understand both , we must first understand the opposite of these...and Answer & Excuse are directly the opposite of each other .

First , I would talk about The Excuse which I would like to call the "The Mischievous Little Devil " . For me , excuse is a reason that you made for yourself to run away from reality . Most excuses are coming from negative thoughts and beliefs . There's a thought from me : "Those who tell themselves that they have no time , too old , and pressurized are just finding an excuse to run away from reality ." (Trying to make their own beliefs to reality , trying to make people think that this is impossible ) .

Here's an example , when a person slacks before exams ... and when he got his results (and fail) , he would say I just don't have enough time , it's too hard etc . What kind of reason is this ? Why everyone have enough time when he don't . But please remember GOD treats each of us fair ... Why does he said that ? Because he wants his pride and don't want to admit his mistakes . Excuses are lies , they will make you lie to yourself over and over again .

For my personal advice , please don't make any lies to yourself , just admit the truth and try to mend it ....Better late than never ... Excuses may stop us from doing the right thing , but please remember we still have answers .

Next , the answers will not be the "Holy Angel " , But it will be "The Brave Warrior ". Answers are different from excuses , answer are reasons that is the truth , the reality . But , people who give out answers besides excuses are better . Because they have the courage to face the reality , their problems and most importantly they will be responsible for their actions and bare the consequences that they have done .

We use the example above , if he slacked before exams and got his results ...Rather than saying I don't have time ; He would say I didn't prepare well or I'm lazy (negative thinking/beliefs maybe finding a way to make his beliefs true) and he will treat that as a learning experience .

So , in the future you want to be a "Little Devil " or a "Brave warrior " , its your choice ; Which would you choose to be ?

The Connection Between Being Defeated & Defeating Ourselves

Our human mind is a very special thing ......... When you want it to ''work'' ...... it may not ''work'' .....If you want to use it properly ...... It may not let you .......

So.....today I want to talk about The Connection Between Being Defeated & Defeating Ourselves

Being defeated by yourselves means that you have negative feelings in yourself ..... It will ''prevent you from making the correct decisions......making wise choices ....... being a proper person & have a better future .... Your inner self can be an angel but will also be a devil ... If you always think negative and have bad habits ...... The devil will arise and will conquer you ........... Besides that , when you have been defeated by yourself , you will also think that nothing is possible.....and you can't do anything well because of your own habit and attitude .

Defeating yourself means that you have the ability to face your problem & overcome yourself . This is the main obstacle to defeating yourself....one wrong step you may be the opposite....but please remember that ''Those so called failures are only temporary defeats .'' So....If you fell in the pit of failure or sorrows ......have the guts to crawl back up to having the heart of ....giving effort & don't give in ......

Finally , I want everyone to remember that nothing can bring you to success but yourself...

Connection about Myself ( 1 )

The first thing that I will say to myself is that even though my blog can help others ...... But maybe I can't help myself ........... All my bad habits are still there ....... The procrastinator maybe me ...because I always do things at the last minute ....

But there are a few quotes that I can help & change myself....If I use it well , wise and as a guide for me to change..

Procrastination is the bad habit of putting of until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday.
Napoleon Hill

Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.
Napoleon Hill

The ladder of success is never crowded at the top.
Napoleon Hill

= Improvement without stopping

Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success.
Napoleon Hill

If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self.
Napoleon Hill

When defeat comes, accept it as a signal that your plans are not sound, rebuild those plans, and set sail once more toward your coveted goal.

Napoleon Hill

Victory is always possible for the person who refuses to stop fighting.
Napoleon Hill

You might well remember that nothing can bring you success but yourself.
Napoleon Hill

No accurate thinker will judge another person by that which the other person's enemies say about him.
Napoleon Hill

Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness.
Napoleon Hill

Action is the real measure of intelligence.
Napoleon Hill

These are the few quotes that represent the opposite of my character .... I will remember before that I help people in the future ......... I must help myself first ....

Connection about Chance

What is a chance ? A chance means that you have an opportunity to do something . There are some definitions of chance that I want to share today .

Chance is given to those who are prepared .

You must create your own chance .

Chance is always in your fingertips . It's your choice to grab it or lose it .

If you want to create your own chance . Then you must work hard for it . Work harder and harder , and one day ...... you will be able to create that chance . The main principle of creating your own chance is '' You make your own chance with effort , not with sheer luck''

Besides that , to grab your own chance , please remember that you must fulfill one condition first that is to be prepared . If you are prepared , you can grab your chance without any hesitation ; If you are not prepared , you will hesitate and lose the chance .

There's an example here that how you create your own chance :

Rex is a student from a secondary school ....He is born from a poor family . After his SPM , he wants to study at Yale University ...To do so , He must pass his SPM's in Flying colours and get a scholarship . So,Rex study has hard as he could ...... Finally , He passed his SPM with flying colours . And Rex has the opportunity to step in the road to fulfilling his dreams .

Although the SPM are very hard . But if Rex study .... He could also pass it with flying colours..

This proves that '' You make your own chance with effort , not with sheer luck''

Finally , I want to say that : ''If you have a chance and you don't appreciate it , then you will lose it . ''

Connection about thoughts ( 2 )

Today I've learned a few things at school ....... It may change my thoughts and my habitual behaviour .

I will share it with you :

You can't change the history and the past .... But you can change your future .

你不可改变历史，但可改变未来

I go to school to study is not just for exam and knowledge ...... But also learning to become a better person .

我去学校不只是为了考试和获取知识，还有学习做人

Chance is mean for people who had prepare well......

机会是给有准备的人

Success is a habit ..............

成功是一种习惯

The pain of learning is temporary ; The pain of not learning is forever.......

学习的痛苦是暂时的；不学习的痛苦是永久的

That's all that I want to share today ....

The Connection Between Mistakes & Improvement

What are mistakes ? Some people think that when you have made a mistake , there's no way turning back . This may be true ...... and sometimes it may be not true .

Mistakes are something that you've done wrong . If people critic at the mistakes you've made , don't be sad ...It may feel humiliating . But .......... try positive thinking , Those people are unintentionally helping you . If you know your mistakes , you won't repeat it again . ''Mistake is a process making you to improve and making you better . ''
But if you did some serious mistakes , You may end up yourself in jail or you don't exist in this world anymore...This is the consequences . By the way , you still can change the fate of yourself . How do your change that ? Everybody thinks that the first thing that you must do is turn over a new leaf . I think that we still need a few steps before turning over a new leaf .

This is some of my thoughts :
1 . Change your way of thinking
Example : Positive thinking not negative thinking .
2 . Change your habit
Example: Leave the good and change the bad .
3 . Appreciate yourself and everybody else
4 . Turn over a new leaf

There's a word that I always tell myself '' Those who don't know their mistakes tend to repeat it '' Mistake is a history , you don't know it , then you will repeat it . So , try to remember the mistakes you've made and try not to repeat it unless it is necessary .

The Connection Between Work , Improvement & Success

Everyone thinks that if u succeed in your life , it will be the greatest achievement in their life . In my opinion , they are WRONG . For me , the greatest achievement in my life is improvement . Everyone thinks that everything has its limit , but improvement doesn't have any limit at all .

When you try to work hard , you keep on improving....improving and improving . There's nothing stopping yourself to improve except for your own attitude and habit .

Look at an example , The Earth is in ''DANGER " now.....but what can we do to save the Earth ?? While finding a way to overcome this problem , we improve.....No matter what field it is (Knowledge,Habits and Others ) .......These are call improvements .

The main principle of success is hard work and improvement . If you want to improve , you must ''defeat'' the inner self in you , because the main obstacle you must overcome is yourself . How can you make something better if you can't overcome yourself .

Conclusion:
To make something better , First you must make yourself better .

Improvements = Defeat your inner self + Hard Work

Success = Improvements + Good Habits & Character


Success can be achieved by every living thing in the world . You just need to grab the chance , not waiting for it .