The Connection Between Being Defeated & Defeating Ourselves

Our human mind is a very special thing ......... When you want it to ''work'' ...... it may not ''work'' .....If you want to use it properly ...... It may not let you .......

So.....today I want to talk about The Connection Between Being Defeated & Defeating Ourselves

Being defeated by yourselves means that you have negative feelings in yourself ..... It will ''prevent you from making the correct decisions......making wise choices ....... being a proper person & have a better future .... Your inner self can be an angel but will also be a devil ... If you always think negative and have bad habits ...... The devil will arise and will conquer you ........... Besides that , when you have been defeated by yourself , you will also think that nothing is possible.....and you can't do anything well because of your own habit and attitude .

Defeating yourself means that you have the ability to face your problem & overcome yourself . This is the main obstacle to defeating yourself....one wrong step you may be the opposite....but please remember that ''Those so called failures are only temporary defeats .'' So....If you fell in the pit of failure or sorrows ......have the guts to crawl back up to having the heart of ....giving effort & don't give in ......

Finally , I want everyone to remember that nothing can bring you to success but yourself...

Connection about Myself ( 1 )

The first thing that I will say to myself is that even though my blog can help others ...... But maybe I can't help myself ........... All my bad habits are still there ....... The procrastinator maybe me ...because I always do things at the last minute ....

But there are a few quotes that I can help & change myself....If I use it well , wise and as a guide for me to change..

Procrastination is the bad habit of putting of until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday.
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Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.
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The ladder of success is never crowded at the top.
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= Improvement without stopping

Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success.
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If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self.
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When defeat comes, accept it as a signal that your plans are not sound, rebuild those plans, and set sail once more toward your coveted goal.

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Victory is always possible for the person who refuses to stop fighting.
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You might well remember that nothing can bring you success but yourself.
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No accurate thinker will judge another person by that which the other person's enemies say about him.
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Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness.
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Action is the real measure of intelligence.
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These are the few quotes that represent the opposite of my character .... I will remember before that I help people in the future ......... I must help myself first ....

Connection about Chance

What is a chance ? A chance means that you have an opportunity to do something . There are some definitions of chance that I want to share today .

Chance is given to those who are prepared .

You must create your own chance .

Chance is always in your fingertips . It's your choice to grab it or lose it .

If you want to create your own chance . Then you must work hard for it . Work harder and harder , and one day ...... you will be able to create that chance . The main principle of creating your own chance is '' You make your own chance with effort , not with sheer luck''

Besides that , to grab your own chance , please remember that you must fulfill one condition first that is to be prepared . If you are prepared , you can grab your chance without any hesitation ; If you are not prepared , you will hesitate and lose the chance .

There's an example here that how you create your own chance :

Rex is a student from a secondary school ....He is born from a poor family . After his SPM , he wants to study at Yale University ...To do so , He must pass his SPM's in Flying colours and get a scholarship . So,Rex study has hard as he could ...... Finally , He passed his SPM with flying colours . And Rex has the opportunity to step in the road to fulfilling his dreams .

Although the SPM are very hard . But if Rex study .... He could also pass it with flying colours..

This proves that '' You make your own chance with effort , not with sheer luck''

Finally , I want to say that : ''If you have a chance and you don't appreciate it , then you will lose it . ''

Connection about thoughts ( 2 )

Today I've learned a few things at school ....... It may change my thoughts and my habitual behaviour .

I will share it with you :

You can't change the history and the past .... But you can change your future .

你不可改变历史，但可改变未来

I go to school to study is not just for exam and knowledge ...... But also learning to become a better person .

我去学校不只是为了考试和获取知识，还有学习做人

Chance is mean for people who had prepare well......

机会是给有准备的人

Success is a habit ..............

成功是一种习惯

The pain of learning is temporary ; The pain of not learning is forever.......

学习的痛苦是暂时的；不学习的痛苦是永久的

That's all that I want to share today ....