Today , I want to talk about The Connection Between Answers & Excuse .... To understand both , we must first understand the opposite of these...and Answer & Excuse are directly the opposite of each other .
First , I would talk about The Excuse which I would like to call the "The Mischievous Little Devil " . For me , excuse is a reason that you made for yourself to run away from reality . Most excuses are coming from negative thoughts and beliefs . There's a thought from me : "Those who tell themselves that they have no time , too old , and pressurized are just finding an excuse to run away from reality ." (Trying to make their own beliefs to reality , trying to make people think that this is impossible ) .
Here's an example , when a person slacks before exams ... and when he got his results (and fail) , he would say I just don't have enough time , it's too hard etc . What kind of reason is this ? Why everyone have enough time when he don't . But please remember GOD treats each of us fair ... Why does he said that ? Because he wants his pride and don't want to admit his mistakes . Excuses are lies , they will make you lie to yourself over and over again .
For my personal advice , please don't make any lies to yourself , just admit the truth and try to mend it ....Better late than never ... Excuses may stop us from doing the right thing , but please remember we still have answers .
Next , the answers will not be the "Holy Angel " , But it will be "The Brave Warrior ". Answers are different from excuses , answer are reasons that is the truth , the reality . But , people who give out answers besides excuses are better . Because they have the courage to face the reality , their problems and most importantly they will be responsible for their actions and bare the consequences that they have done .
We use the example above , if he slacked before exams and got his results ...Rather than saying I don't have time ; He would say I didn't prepare well or I'm lazy (negative thinking/beliefs maybe finding a way to make his beliefs true) and he will treat that as a learning experience .
So , in the future you want to be a "Little Devil " or a "Brave warrior " , its your choice ; Which would you choose to be ?
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
The Connection Between Being Defeated & Defeating Ourselves
Our human mind is a very special thing ......... When you want it to ''work'' ...... it may not ''work'' .....If you want to use it properly ...... It may not let you .......
So.....today I want to talk about The Connection Between Being Defeated & Defeating Ourselves
Being defeated by yourselves means that you have negative feelings in yourself ..... It will ''prevent you from making the correct decisions......making wise choices ....... being a proper person & have a better future .... Your inner self can be an angel but will also be a devil ... If you always think negative and have bad habits ...... The devil will arise and will conquer you ........... Besides that , when you have been defeated by yourself , you will also think that nothing is possible.....and you can't do anything well because of your own habit and attitude .
Defeating yourself means that you have the ability to face your problem & overcome yourself . This is the main obstacle to defeating yourself....one wrong step you may be the opposite....but please remember that ''Those so called failures are only temporary defeats .'' So....If you fell in the pit of failure or sorrows ......have the guts to crawl back up to having the heart of ....giving effort & don't give in ......
Finally , I want everyone to remember that nothing can bring you to success but yourself...
Monday, May 17, 2010
Connection about Myself ( 1 )
The first thing that I will say to myself is that even though my blog can help others ...... But maybe I can't help myself ........... All my bad habits are still there ....... The procrastinator maybe me ...because I always do things at the last minute ....
But there are a few quotes that I can help & change myself....If I use it well , wise and as a guide for me to change..
Procrastination is the bad habit of putting of until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday.
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Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.
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The ladder of success is never crowded at the top.
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= Improvement without stopping
Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success.
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Napoleon Hill
If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self.
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When defeat comes, accept it as a signal that your plans are not sound, rebuild those plans, and set sail once more toward your coveted goal.
Victory is always possible for the person who refuses to stop fighting.
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You might well remember that nothing can bring you success but yourself.
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No accurate thinker will judge another person by that which the other person's enemies say about him.
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Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness.
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Action is the real measure of intelligence.
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Napoleon Hill
These are the few quotes that represent the opposite of my character .... I will remember before that I help people in the future ......... I must help myself first ....
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Connection about Chance
What is a chance ? A chance means that you have an opportunity to do something . There are some definitions of chance that I want to share today .
Chance is given to those who are prepared .
You must create your own chance .
Chance is always in your fingertips . It's your choice to grab it or lose it .
If you want to create your own chance . Then you must work hard for it . Work harder and harder , and one day ...... you will be able to create that chance . The main principle of creating your own chance is '' You make your own chance with effort , not with sheer luck''
Besides that , to grab your own chance , please remember that you must fulfill one condition first that is to be prepared . If you are prepared , you can grab your chance without any hesitation ; If you are not prepared , you will hesitate and lose the chance .
There's an example here that how you create your own chance :
Rex is a student from a secondary school ....He is born from a poor family . After his SPM , he wants to study at Yale University ...To do so , He must pass his SPM's in Flying colours and get a scholarship . So,Rex study has hard as he could ...... Finally , He passed his SPM with flying colours . And Rex has the opportunity to step in the road to fulfilling his dreams .
Although the SPM are very hard . But if Rex study .... He could also pass it with flying colours..
This proves that '' You make your own chance with effort , not with sheer luck''
Finally , I want to say that : ''If you have a chance and you don't appreciate it , then you will lose it . ''
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Connection about thoughts ( 2 )
Today I've learned a few things at school ....... It may change my thoughts and my habitual behaviour .
I will share it with you :
You can't change the history and the past .... But you can change your future .
你不可改变历史，但可改变未来
I go to school to study is not just for exam and knowledge ...... But also learning to become a better person .
我去学校不只是为了考试和获取知识，还有学习做人
Chance is mean for people who had prepare well......
机会是给有准备的人
Success is a habit ..............
成功是一种习惯
The pain of learning is temporary ; The pain of not learning is forever.......
学习的痛苦是暂时的；不学习的痛苦是永久的
That's all that I want to share today ....
Thursday, April 29, 2010
The Connection Between Mistakes & Improvement
What are mistakes ? Some people think that when you have made a mistake , there's no way turning back . This may be true ...... and sometimes it may be not true .
Mistakes are something that you've done wrong . If people critic at the mistakes you've made , don't be sad ...It may feel humiliating . But .......... try positive thinking , Those people are unintentionally helping you . If you know your mistakes , you won't repeat it again . ''Mistake is a process making you to improve and making you better . ''
But if you did some serious mistakes , You may end up yourself in jail or you don't exist in this world anymore...This is the consequences . By the way , you still can change the fate of yourself . How do your change that ? Everybody thinks that the first thing that you must do is turn over a new leaf . I think that we still need a few steps before turning over a new leaf .
This is some of my thoughts :
1 . Change your way of thinking
Example : Positive thinking not negative thinking .
2 . Change your habit
Example: Leave the good and change the bad .
3 . Appreciate yourself and everybody else
4 . Turn over a new leaf
There's a word that I always tell myself '' Those who don't know their mistakes tend to repeat it '' Mistake is a history , you don't know it , then you will repeat it . So , try to remember the mistakes you've made and try not to repeat it unless it is necessary .
Mistakes are something that you've done wrong . If people critic at the mistakes you've made , don't be sad ...It may feel humiliating . But .......... try positive thinking , Those people are unintentionally helping you . If you know your mistakes , you won't repeat it again . ''Mistake is a process making you to improve and making you better . ''
But if you did some serious mistakes , You may end up yourself in jail or you don't exist in this world anymore...This is the consequences . By the way , you still can change the fate of yourself . How do your change that ? Everybody thinks that the first thing that you must do is turn over a new leaf . I think that we still need a few steps before turning over a new leaf .
This is some of my thoughts :
1 . Change your way of thinking
Example : Positive thinking not negative thinking .
2 . Change your habit
Example: Leave the good and change the bad .
3 . Appreciate yourself and everybody else
4 . Turn over a new leaf
There's a word that I always tell myself '' Those who don't know their mistakes tend to repeat it '' Mistake is a history , you don't know it , then you will repeat it . So , try to remember the mistakes you've made and try not to repeat it unless it is necessary .
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
The Connection Between Work , Improvement & Success
Everyone thinks that if u succeed in your life , it will be the greatest achievement in their life . In my opinion , they are WRONG . For me , the greatest achievement in my life is improvement . Everyone thinks that everything has its limit , but improvement doesn't have any limit at all .
When you try to work hard , you keep on improving....improving and improving . There's nothing stopping yourself to improve except for your own attitude and habit .
Look at an example , The Earth is in ''DANGER " now.....but what can we do to save the Earth ?? While finding a way to overcome this problem , we improve.....No matter what field it is (Knowledge,Habits and Others ) .......These are call improvements .
The main principle of success is hard work and improvement . If you want to improve , you must ''defeat'' the inner self in you , because the main obstacle you must overcome is yourself . How can you make something better if you can't overcome yourself .
Conclusion:
To make something better , First you must make yourself better .
Improvements = Defeat your inner self + Hard Work
Success = Improvements + Good Habits & Character
Success can be achieved by every living thing in the world . You just need to grab the chance , not waiting for it .
When you try to work hard , you keep on improving....improving and improving . There's nothing stopping yourself to improve except for your own attitude and habit .
Look at an example , The Earth is in ''DANGER " now.....but what can we do to save the Earth ?? While finding a way to overcome this problem , we improve.....No matter what field it is (Knowledge,Habits and Others ) .......These are call improvements .
The main principle of success is hard work and improvement . If you want to improve , you must ''defeat'' the inner self in you , because the main obstacle you must overcome is yourself . How can you make something better if you can't overcome yourself .
Conclusion:
To make something better , First you must make yourself better .
Improvements = Defeat your inner self + Hard Work
Success = Improvements + Good Habits & Character
Success can be achieved by every living thing in the world . You just need to grab the chance , not waiting for it .
Sunday, April 4, 2010
The Connection Between Exam ,Pressure & Human Character
What do everybody think of exams ?? Pressurized , something that makes yourself crazy or fun ??
Actually , I think that exams can build up your human character , like maths can make you more careful and alert . Besides that , examinations are just to test how can you put the things that you had learn in class into the test .
A few weeks before examination starts , students feel pressurized and study as hard as they can . But just remember one thing , marks are not so important compared to the knowledge & experience you gain . " If you can pressurized yourself , why can't you relax yourself . Pressure may make you feel troubled but pressure will also make you improve and become better . "
Laziness is also the main cause of students that are pressurized.....Remember " The process is what you gain and the results are what you create . " This is also one of the mistakes that you have cause....Please know that " One who don't know his mistakes tend to repeat it ."
I've a friend that don't know how to release his pressure....In the end , he didn't come to school for a month....This tells us "When you're facing trouble , what will you do ?? Face it , run for it
or change it ..." Who knows in the end this trouble will make you to a better person and have a better character .
"Pressure is something flexible , you can convert it to anything you want .......Happiness or Sadness , its your choice.....
What would you choose??
Actually , I think that exams can build up your human character , like maths can make you more careful and alert . Besides that , examinations are just to test how can you put the things that you had learn in class into the test .
A few weeks before examination starts , students feel pressurized and study as hard as they can . But just remember one thing , marks are not so important compared to the knowledge & experience you gain . " If you can pressurized yourself , why can't you relax yourself . Pressure may make you feel troubled but pressure will also make you improve and become better . "
Laziness is also the main cause of students that are pressurized.....Remember " The process is what you gain and the results are what you create . " This is also one of the mistakes that you have cause....Please know that " One who don't know his mistakes tend to repeat it ."
I've a friend that don't know how to release his pressure....In the end , he didn't come to school for a month....This tells us "When you're facing trouble , what will you do ?? Face it , run for it
or change it ..." Who knows in the end this trouble will make you to a better person and have a better character .
"Pressure is something flexible , you can convert it to anything you want .......Happiness or Sadness , its your choice.....
What would you choose??
Connection about thoughts ( I )
In this month , I thought about a lot of things . Things that happen in my life .... My class , my friends and me have change a lot ..
Why don't I share with you some of my thoughts :
Every teenager goes on the same process . Which will you choose ? Face it , Change it or been defeated by it ??
每一个青少年都会经历一样的过程。你会选择面对，改变或逃避？
There is no secret to success , just hard work and appreciate your chance .
成功没有任何的秘诀，只是用功及把握机会。
Chance is always in your hands , It's just your choice , grab it or let it slip by .
机会一直存在于你手中，你会把它捉稳，还是白白错失呢？
What is the real failure in this world ? It's giving up and running away from reality .真正的失败是什么？放弃和逃避
The process is what you gain and the results are what you made .
过程是你所得到的 ；成绩是你所制造的
That all I want to share today .
Why don't I share with you some of my thoughts :
Every teenager goes on the same process . Which will you choose ? Face it , Change it or been defeated by it ??
每一个青少年都会经历一样的过程。你会选择面对，改变或逃避？
There is no secret to success , just hard work and appreciate your chance .
成功没有任何的秘诀，只是用功及把握机会。
Chance is always in your hands , It's just your choice , grab it or let it slip by .
机会一直存在于你手中，你会把它捉稳，还是白白错失呢？
What is the real failure in this world ? It's giving up and running away from reality .真正的失败是什么？放弃和逃避
The process is what you gain and the results are what you made .
过程是你所得到的 ；成绩是你所制造的
That all I want to share today .
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
The Connection Between Love and Hatred , Peace and Chaos
Love can make this world peaceful and harmony. Of course hatred can cause war and change this peaceful and harmonious world to a chaotic world.
What do people think of war ?? Most people view war as something that is violent and may cause this world into chaos . This may be true . But why do people declare war at the first place ?? My opinion is that some have greed for prosperity, land, resources and power. Besides that, there is another reason - hatred.
Hatred means that somebody has a extremely strong feeling of dislike . Hatred may be caused by a lot of things . There are some possibilities that people contain hatred :
1. Narrow Minded
2. Anger
3. They hold a grudge against somebody
War can be also caused by some that want to protect the land....prevent somebody that have a bad intention to rule the country. Yet , war will still cause chaos to this world .
Nobody wants war....because many people will be sacrificed in the process. The families of the sacrificed will be sad because of the loss of their family members.
Some in this world care and help each other... They forgive those who have made mistakes , because to err is human.
Happiness and love is the main condition to bring peace to this world . Peace means that the freedom from war and violence.
The ways of maintaining peace in this world :
Happiness
Forgiving
Love
Remember..War can cause destruction . Try to change this world to a peaceful and harmonious world . Nobody wish to live in a world of chaos .
What do people think of war ?? Most people view war as something that is violent and may cause this world into chaos . This may be true . But why do people declare war at the first place ?? My opinion is that some have greed for prosperity, land, resources and power. Besides that, there is another reason - hatred.
Hatred means that somebody has a extremely strong feeling of dislike . Hatred may be caused by a lot of things . There are some possibilities that people contain hatred :
1. Narrow Minded
2. Anger
3. They hold a grudge against somebody
War can be also caused by some that want to protect the land....prevent somebody that have a bad intention to rule the country. Yet , war will still cause chaos to this world .
Nobody wants war....because many people will be sacrificed in the process. The families of the sacrificed will be sad because of the loss of their family members.
Some in this world care and help each other... They forgive those who have made mistakes , because to err is human.
Happiness and love is the main condition to bring peace to this world . Peace means that the freedom from war and violence.
The ways of maintaining peace in this world :
Happiness
Forgiving
Love
Remember..War can cause destruction . Try to change this world to a peaceful and harmonious world . Nobody wish to live in a world of chaos .
Monday, February 22, 2010
The Connection Between Exams,Results & Knowledge
Why do schools and government organize exams ?? Why do we need to participate in it ?? As a student , I think that we shouldn't study just to pass our examination with flying colours...is to gain the knowledge in between (study and examination) .
School and government organize exams not just to test what we learned in school...It's also trying to find out the comprehension of students of the knowledge that they've learned. Some students can't comprehend well , through exams ,teachers may understand what the students lack...and try to make some improvements for them . Then ,the students may overcome their very own 'obstacle' about studying .
To all students,
Whether your results are good or bad...The most important thing is what you've gain in the process -knowledge and experience... I can't deny that examination results are important. Examples , you need good results to apply university and also to get a better job in the future. So , try to study hard . As a reminder, don't study just for exams... study to gain knowledge...In the future , "Try not to become a man of success, but a man of value ."
These are some tips to gain more knowledge:
Concentrate
Hard work
Think over and over again about the knowledge you've learn
Be brave to ask
I've thought of something about knowledge :
"Everything in this world is connected with each other including knowledge...I may not know the connection in between , but I believe all the knowledge I've gain in the past , present or future , will be useful for me one day..."
Knowledge consists of many things .... Even a trivial matter may also be a kind of knowledge.
School and government organize exams not just to test what we learned in school...It's also trying to find out the comprehension of students of the knowledge that they've learned. Some students can't comprehend well , through exams ,teachers may understand what the students lack...and try to make some improvements for them . Then ,the students may overcome their very own 'obstacle' about studying .
To all students,
Whether your results are good or bad...The most important thing is what you've gain in the process -knowledge and experience... I can't deny that examination results are important. Examples , you need good results to apply university and also to get a better job in the future. So , try to study hard . As a reminder, don't study just for exams... study to gain knowledge...In the future , "Try not to become a man of success, but a man of value ."
These are some tips to gain more knowledge:
Concentrate
Hard work
Think over and over again about the knowledge you've learn
Be brave to ask
I've thought of something about knowledge :
"Everything in this world is connected with each other including knowledge...I may not know the connection in between , but I believe all the knowledge I've gain in the past , present or future , will be useful for me one day..."
Knowledge consists of many things .... Even a trivial matter may also be a kind of knowledge.
Connection among people - Friendship & Love
Each human have the ability to communicate... This connection between humans are called friendship & love .
Friendship is known to be the connection of human because they share and help each other. Some people can't communicate with others well ... it may be their own problem ... or they lack communication skills between people. Even so , we shouldn't have any prejudice against them...Try to accept them with an open heart ... They will appreciate your kindness and the friendship among.
This kind of connection may also bring peace and prevent chaos in the world. War...contains hatred , greed for prosperity,resources , land and power. If the connection among people is maintained...then this world will be in peace and harmony...
Don't bear hatred... We are chose to be in this world... So , try to be open minded and kind hearted...then the link of connection between you and your friends won't break forever. Be kind to everyone...one day...you'll find that you have a better connection with others better than before..
These are some principles to maintain friendship & love from people :
Tolerance
Respect
Understandable
Equality
Now, I hope that everyone in this world will not bear hatred , try to remember "TRUE" .... I think everybody prefers to live in a world of friendship and love .
Friendship is known to be the connection of human because they share and help each other. Some people can't communicate with others well ... it may be their own problem ... or they lack communication skills between people. Even so , we shouldn't have any prejudice against them...Try to accept them with an open heart ... They will appreciate your kindness and the friendship among.
This kind of connection may also bring peace and prevent chaos in the world. War...contains hatred , greed for prosperity,resources , land and power. If the connection among people is maintained...then this world will be in peace and harmony...
Don't bear hatred... We are chose to be in this world... So , try to be open minded and kind hearted...then the link of connection between you and your friends won't break forever. Be kind to everyone...one day...you'll find that you have a better connection with others better than before..
These are some principles to maintain friendship & love from people :
Tolerance
Respect
Understandable
Equality
Now, I hope that everyone in this world will not bear hatred , try to remember "TRUE" .... I think everybody prefers to live in a world of friendship and love .
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